Our transition to living a more mindful lifestyle has been a huge eye-opening experience. The amount of needless waste we created in the past is shocking to us now. Personally, I was a compulsive shopper, who would shop to help improve a dull mood. No thought was put into what was bought or questions were never asked like, “Do I need this?”, “Have I something similar?”, “Will I wear this next year?”.
Shopping was something I did when I was bored, sad, happy, excited, basically, I needed no excuse. My perception of happiness & the first thought of contentment entered my mind after we moved to Canada. We began working & socializing with people who had “everything”: the cars, the houses, the clothes, the shoes, the jewellery, the bags, the holidays & the money.
However, these people still felt they did not have enough. After a shopping spree of which I spent A LOT of money, I came home and began looking online at other things I could purchase……for some reason I caught myself doing this & paused. I paused to think about the people who we got to know in recent years, so much money but it wasn’t enough, more money had to be earned, more holidays, more houses, more bags, shoes etc. had to be got. That’s when I realised it would never end for me, I would constantly come home after shopping and feel I needed more. I wanted to feel content with what I had and start to live my life differently.
The first thing that I wanted to change was my wardrobe. I wanted a wardrobe that would last years & not date. I started researching about capsule wardrobes and how French girls always look chic & stylish with only a handful of garments. This was the first step on the road to a new life for us.
Almost 5 years later, we both have capsule wardrobes and are so much more content in our lives. With contentment comes happiness. We appreciate what we have & take care of our things so they can last as long as possible. We are conscious of our waste and look for ways to reduce our carbon footprint. In light of all the climate protests in 2019, we have decided to challenge ourselves to reduce our waste further in 2020.
One way we plan on doing this is through the challenge #2020wehaveplenty which was created by Signe from Uselesswardrobe.dk. It is a small set of rules for reducing our buying for 2020. Buying only what we need, trying to source it second hand first are our priorities.
If you are interested in joining the challenge please take a look at the buy less 2020 recommendations list below and post your pictures in Instagram to the hashtag #2020wehaveplenty.
So far, we have been loving this challenge. Today I bought a dress for my friend’s wedding in June in a second-hand store for a fraction of the original price. I had seen the dress in a high-end store last year and couldn’t justify paying the amount for the dress. I was so happy to have found the dress and now I have a beautiful dress for any other fancy occasions for years to come. This has been my only purchase this year, and it was on my list of items to get. Super happy.
The best of luck on your low spending in 2020.